solo female traveler, part-time loner

I remember my first solo international flight to Rome. I was meeting up with a tour group at a hotel just outside of the city. I was so nervous to navigate my way from the airport to the hotel all alone in a foreign country where I didn’t speak the language.

My dad gave me some extra cash so I could safely take a taxi, but somewhere along the way, I worked up the courage to take public transportation on my own – I took the train to the metro and the metro to the burbs – then I wandered a bit and eventually stumbled across the hotel. It wasn’t a bad or confusing trek at all (oh, I’ve had those too – if you’ve been on those treks gone wrong with me, you are probably laughing about it right now, even though we weren’t laughing at the time).

It was a very liberating feeling to travel by myself. I felt like I didn’t need to wait for others to decide to join me – I could travel the world and meet new people along the way. Now I look back at being nervous in Rome as a silly idea. Since then, I’ve spent many hours at a time trekking solo through Rome without an agenda. It has become one of my favorite cities in the world.

I just flew from Miami to Vancouver and spent three days wandering around the city alone and loving every minute of it.

My next flight, to Beijing, was a long but smooth journey. Travel tip: hire a private driver for your airport transfer in Beijing – its a big airport. It made life much easier. Still, as a single female traveler, the trip from the airport to the hotel is always the scariest part because it usually involves me being alone in a vehicle with a strange man in a strange land. I definitely feel more comfortable prearrange transfer than just getting a taxi outside the terminal. My driver was very nice and even refused a tip–I would learn later that tipping isn’t always viewed as a good thing.

Beijing is dreary so far. The buildings and sky are gray. The traffic is heavy, and there is a stench of harsh industrialism. So far the staff I’ve met have been very nice and helpful and the hotel room is fair (except for the rock hard mattress – I feel like I’m sleeping on a pool table!).

It was daylight for the last 24 hours of my journey – the sun has finally set and it is definitely time for me to sleep – I’m just going to try and stay awake for a few more hours so I can hopefully adjust to the time difference.

Published by LiAnn & Theo

We're not twenty-something backpackers taking a trek around the world (anymore). We work full time and spend every spare dollar and minute on our wanderlust. We live to travel. Exploring new cultures, meeting people from around the world, sharing food, drink and music—all this reminds us that we are one tribe. We write how-to tips to help you have a smooth journey as well as our inner thoughts on new places we explore. Let us know what you think!

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